Oh hello there. Gamer here who also happens to be one of the ladyfolk.
I've been playing a lot more multiplayer games lately. I often stay mute in public games and just kind of hide behind my gender-neutral username but I sometimes get interesting results when I actually use my mic. Played a couple hours of EDF online this morning and within an hour got three random friend requests and the following delightful messages:
"what r u wearing?"
"u have a boyfriend?"
"want to chat?"
and that old chestnut:
"tit pics pls" (so polite!)
Made me laugh pretty hard, just had to share :D